| Add Memory | Add To Friends | |
| ddeastroyer (profile) wrote, on 1-18-2005 at 8:19pm | |
| Current mood: pissed off Music: Bleeding Me -- Metallica Subject: UGH!... |
|
| I am unbelievably sick of trying to help people out with their problems... All I do is offer them insight on what their problem is and what they should do about it because they cant make the choice... Or they arent willing to... I actually dont tell them to do something... I kinda show them why they should do a certain thing... Anyways... Back to be being really pissed off... I try to help them and tell them that they are being ridiculous and that they are smarter and... Quite frankly... Better than this... And 95% of the time they are!... I will be givin some BS reason why they dont wanna do it and well... I tell them its BS... Then I will get reoccurances in the past and what happened and how they dont wanna be hurt anymore... Gimme a break... Its usually like "Oh, so your not willing to try and fix your problem because your scared of be hurt BUT you will just sit around and hurt inside until it eats you away to insanity..." and I am getting sick of this BS... Anyways... Then they will try and relate it to me and give me some crap like... Oh well your lucky and you dont have these problems... Ya I dont... You know why!?... I go out and fix my problems and dont dwell on them because I actually do have a F***IN shred of common sense... After that stage they will try giving me another excuse to try and say "Well it doesnt matter anyways because..." and this is gettin to me a lot now because now you are just treatin me like a frickin child... ALL I AM TRYING TO DO IS HELP!!... After this we go back to the first reason how they dont wanna be hurt again and then to the "I dont wanna hurt anymore" or "I dont wanna cry anymore" in which case I have to say "Oh but you rather not try and fix your life and just be unhappy... Yes brilliant!!"... Come on people... THEN!... A person will bitch at me and make some snide ass, bitchy comment like "Ya thanks Dr. Phil"... I dont know what to say to this but dont take your anger out on me... Instead... GO TRY AND FIX YOUR PROBLEM... Then finally they relate it to me having no problems and leave because they know I am right and they cant take that... This was based on a convo earlier today but usually the convos follow that format... I would say "I am not going to help people anymore" but I know I cant do that so I dunno... Any suggestions? |
|
| Post A Comment |
|
| Anonymous | 01-20-05 6:35pm Yeah sounds like she has to solve a lot of problems too. maybe thats why she is like that! |
Anonymous | Re:, 01-20-05 7:36pm I am only saying that because I have a friend here at my school and she is the same way..... she helps out everyone but wont help herself because she is afraid of getting hurt like hers friends do. I just think you should give her a break. |
ddeastroyer | Re: Re:, 01-20-05 10:13pm I am sorry but I dont know who this is... Next time will you put a little --_______ so I know who you are?... Thanks...
|