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poisonedheart (profile) wrote,
on 10-21-2007 at 9:33pm
Ha, summary of why women suck 99.9% of the time.

A woman has a close male friend. This means that he is probably interested in her, which is why he hangs around so much. She sees him strictly as a friend. This always starts out with, you're a great guy, but I don't like you in that way.

This is roughly the equivalent for the guy of going to a job interview and the company saying, You have a great resume, you have all the qualifications we are looking for, but we're not going to hire you. We will, however, use your resume as the basis for comparison for all other applicants. But, we're going to hire somebody who is far less qualified and is probably an alcoholic. And if he doesn't work out, we'll hire somebody else, but still not you. In fact, we will never hire you. But we will call you from time to time to complain about the person that we hired.
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rorin

10-22-07 1:04am

Nathan, really, if you are so damn interested in her and she isn't in you, you just need to drop it. Do you really think you can take the constant rejection there will be while you are her friend? If you can't then you need to not be around her. And if you can, and it is better to be around her than not be around her, you just need to accept her feelings.

I've had it happen many times before to me. I'm interested in someone, they aren't in me, they rub it in my face, and I can't stand it. I've always been one to leave that sort of boy/girl relationship alone and distance myself from harm.

But if you think she is better as a friend than not at all, you need to just put up with her feelings.
This probably kind of sucks for her too.


Right, I don't mean for that to sound mean.
I'm not on ANYONE'S side. I see flaws in both of your actions.
I just want you to be happier than you are right now. I want the best for you.

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poisonedheart

Re:, 10-22-07 1:06am

Um...this was kinda a joke, I found it was a good summary of a position that most men are all too familiar with.

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rorin

Re: Re:, 10-22-07 1:07am

A joke... right.

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poisonedheart

Re: Re: Re:, 10-22-07 1:08am

No, seriously, it's a LITTLE serious, but it's mostly a joke about the fact that most nice guys encounter that situation with every girl they like, it's actually something that nice guys are incredibly used to, when I posted it as a myspace bulletin all the really nice guys I know sent me messages saying "Dude, that's so true"

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rorin

And, 10-22-07 1:06am

I don't want you to base all women on what you see in one friendship you have.

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