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|Lavitz1985 (profile) wrote, |
on 10-13-2003 at 3:13pm
|It has become my opinion that it is no longer wise for anyone in our group to date each other. Too many bad feelings keep coming out of it, and I don't think it's wise. I know like in KT and Tom's case, it's different... Tom came into the group more really because of KT. He's a member now, but is under that clause of joining by relationship. I feel our group will die if we don't stop dating within it. What needs to happen is we need to find people outside the group, like Jackie did, and then Mat is slowly joining into our circle... when he doesn't have to work that is (which is rare.) This is just my opinion, and since nobody ever listens to me anyways... have fun.|
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Ah but it was okay for me to date you? Or if I had dated Lil Ben? You seemed to approve of that.
Oh, and I think he's a member of the group because of Benoît. Ya know, seeing as he is his best friend and all.
Aw, well, we love you too Ray (Mat and I, that is).
It is alright to date whoever you wish to, true, but one should consider the outcomes of such a relationship. In the case of in-group coupling, I'd have to agree with Ray, it really doesn't appear to work out well at all in our group. To each their own, but I personally find Rays opinion, though perhaps mildly misguided, is not devoid of reason or use. Honestly, I would not take it so lightly...
Re:, 10-13-03 8:14pm
It's not misguided... It's been my own experiences, and those of Rachel, that have brought me to this conclusion. Not to mention the troubles Benoît and Jackie have.
Re: Re:, 10-13-03 8:28pm
I was primarily referring to the Tom argument, as he really was sort of part of our group last year, long before I even had a slightest clue that he and KT would get together...
I'm with Ray. Like I told him, I said the exact same thing in fewer words today, just out loud outta nowhere lol. I too was looking at him and Rachel, and Jackie and Benoit, and then Nick and Rachel..And I don't like where its going! You guys need to be watching out for each other.
Re:, 10-13-03 11:00pm
i agree well sortof i think we should all be looking out for each other. And taking care of each other that is what friends do.
i feel kinda guilty cuz i didn't really even know that Tom existed last year. He was just some random friend of BenoÃ®t's that hung out at the tree after school and lived a few houses away...i had no idea before summer started that i'd be dating him in the near future.
Im gonna have to go with ray on this one. except for the fact that i came in the group because of benoit. people in our group do have a tendency to hurt others in our group, but thats the only way we learn. these are life lessons that we must learn and use later on in life when we are teaching our kids how to grow up. But even that wont matter because they will have to learn themselves anyway. Its a natural process of life. Letthings happen the way they are going to. Life is a rollercoaster, and we are all on for the ride, whether we like it or not.
I did not mean you weren't a part at all man, just not really around all the time like some others. This wasn't intended to start a controversy, just my opinion that we should look out for each other, and not hurt one another.