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chelthesmell (profile) wrote,
on 9-5-2006 at 8:38pm
Current mood: annoyed
Subject: I am the bigger person...
On my birthday, my 2nd oldest sister, Sarah did not call me or anything to let me know that she either remembered nor cared that it was my special day. But today is her birthday and I called her to say hi and wish her a good day and ask her how she was doing. I let her know how I was doing and whatnot. I wish I wasn't so nice because she really doesn't deserve to be wished a happy birthday. We haven't seen her sense christmas, with the exception of the 2 times she came threw drive thru. She didn't call on mothers day (though my mom is her step mom but she has been a better mother than her real one), didn't call on both my sisters' and my brother's birthdays, or on father's day. My dad is still really upset about that one. But after all of that, I still gave her a call on her birthday. Not to be big headed or anything, but I am a much better person than her. Even when I think I dont care, I really do and I show it. Last year she didn't come to my birthday party but I went to her graduation party that her boyfriends family held for her where I was introduced to everyone as the half sister which really pushed my buttons. and they only held that for her because she didn't want to go to the one that we threw for her...yeah...she didn't even come to her own party. We still had a party though and just turned it into a going away party when we were moving out of our house. But I dont understand how someone who is 33 years old can be so distant for their family when they only live few minutes away. My dad feels like it's all his fault but she's just selfish and stubburn, just like dad. They both need to suck it up and talk about their problems because this is rediculous. I wish I knew my sister but I dont get the impression that she wants to get to know me. She's a different person than I am and very screwed up. She needs to figure out who she is before I can and she needs to choose what's more important, getting stonned or being with us...
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sexkitten

No calls on B-days, 09-06-06 9:29am

Hey, don't feel bad, my dad didn't call me on my birthday, and I haven't heard from them since June. I think they are hoping that I'm dead....

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