06-29-07 11:11pm

Paul, I have a question for you...

Are we still real, true friends or have we become just acquaintances?

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Re:, 06-30-07 12:38am

Friendship is more a process of nature than of choice. I have to be frank with you; stop pushing it so hard. If it's going to happen, it'll happen. Why don't you ask me to hang out instead of ask if we're still friends? If you really want to be my friend that badly, make steps towards making it so. If it doesn't work out, so be it. For my part, I'm a little wary of getting too close to you because it seems like you find personal matters to be intolerable and offensive, i.e. girlfriends. So basically, I can't get close to you because you restrict areas of my own life within the relationship. This pattern is consistent and predictable. And other than that, I think you're a great person. But I am, as always, willing to give it a shot.

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Re: Re:, 06-30-07 2:18am

I know that friendship is more of a process of nature than a choice, but choices have something to do with it. And I'm not trying to push hard to be frank, for the most part I've given up. Personally, I think that both people on both sides should at least make some sort of effort during the friendship. And about the hanging out thing, I ask. And you never return my phone calls or anything. It's kind of fusterating and I am not angry about it because I know that you're busy as am I. It's just so annoying because you're saying that I need to make steps toward us being friends. I find this funny because I have taken countless steps to try and be your friend and have gotten not much of a friendship in return.
As for the personal matters problem, I am honestly sorry. I never meant to act that way and always be jealous of your girlfriends. I just wish that you would trust me and believe me that I've grown out of that and I now understand how come you got so fusterated. I've changed a whole lot since we've actually hung out and been friends. So when I ask you to trust me as I have trusted you, I would appreciate it if you at least gave me a chance.

Okay. Let's try to give it another shot. And this time, let us really try. No more excuses. You're a great person Paul and I would really like to be friends with you without all of our personal issues getting in the way. So let us wipe the slate clean and start over, yes?

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Re: Re: Re:, 07-01-07 1:34pm

yes, indeed.

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Re: Re: Re: Re:, 07-01-07 1:42pm

yay!

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