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mudpiegrl (profile) wrote,
on 8-11-2005 at 10:29am
In what could only be a strange turn of events, my confusion was turned to understanding last night. I expressed my confusion to Justin and just sort of text-ranted, and decided that I’d just shut up because he wasn’t understanding. Then, about an hour later, he returned that he did understand and did like me a significant amount and that we learn so much from each other that I couldn’t possibly impair his learning. I agreed and he responded that he was scared of losing his friends because I would become his priority. I told him that it wasn’t right to just forget about them because they are the ones that will always be there, no matter what happens with girlfriends and such. We began to ask questions and set rules, one of which is that no matter what happens, we’re still going to be friends. He needs to ask Ian because he doesn’t want to hurt Chanel(his ex), but he isn’t “sensitive enough to ask her [him]self.” There’s another part that’s kind of weird but I don’t know if I want to put it on here because it’s a little rough as it is having no one approve of him. How do you fight your desires and when do you stop working for them and start for you? He also doesn’t want another girlfriend that cries because he doesn’t say I love you every half an hour. I don’t think that will be a problem. I have yet to ask him just not to ever be drunk around me. I can’t change his decisions that he made before I came around, but just that would be respect enough.
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angel_bob

08-11-05 3:59pm

A significant amount? Impairing his learning? He sounds like a weird kid. Setting rules before you're in a relationship. Hope everything works out okay :/

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mudpiegrl

Re:, 08-11-05 7:09pm

lol i dont know any normal kids. i dont know he's cool. thanks though.

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toki

08-14-05 3:06am

im happy for you. If it makes you happy, then I'm behind you. I promise.

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